can u stop slamming the Creator (Yah, A'yah(Allah), Aheiyah) because if we followed His advice it would all work much better. I don't mind u saying people don't listen to His word correctly or didn't follow suit because that is the real reason things don't work out like u said. Or what could be more true is those folks say believe and give false advise but r hypocrites. that's all. Yes it is also the way the system is so we all need to be taking the red pill.
to agree with u, i think Remedy is frustrated but now realizing he can only (got little choice) marry "out" or get mail-order-bride to have that good family. it ain't working with BW maybe even Western women period.
KaptanSLOW wrote: "Why do you need money in order to keep from being controlled?"
WHat did your MOMMA do you? She said "don't eat my food,etc."
SHE Controlled you because you didn't have MONEY to BUY FOOD,right?
If you would have had MONEY back then would your MOMMA have been able to control you? or DENY YOU FOOD?
See? You just answered your OWN question.
YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE to LEAVE and NOT SLEEP ON THE STREETS!
SLOW wrote:"I think that black men are too god damned weak to stand by what the fuck they build FIRST and if a woman doesn't want to get the program...let her fuckin' walk!"
Uhh.. DUMMY that's what we been saying...THEY AIN'T FOLLOWING your PROGRAM because you have MONEY!
WE still waiting for your LONELY ass to SHOW us one that is FOLLOWING your PROGRAM because you got MONEY.
We know they didn't FOLLOW you when you were BROKE living under a BRIDGE.
after killing yourself in school part time...finally you get your degree(undergrad) and move up at your company(yea, as an engineer from an electrician)...and there is still no respect.
(well damn Kap...see, making the money didn't change anything)
...and then start your own business, your hours increase and they just will not follow the program...yep
(well Kap...doesn't that prove that we are right and you are wrong?)
So...what are you all going to do? Negotiate with them?
Build it to their terms?
Makes less money?
Accept their input more?...(knowing good and damned well...they are going to lead everything)...
If you aren't willing to challenge them on this shit...you can forget challenging other races of men!
Believe me...corp. amer is much more brutal than this shit.
The business world ain't "black man" user-friendly.
OK SO LETS NOT FOCUS ON MAKING MORE THAN OUR WOMEN. LETS FOCUS ON GOING AFTER THE TOP GROUP, LETS COMPETE WITH WHITE AND ASIANS. FUCK IT AIM FOR THE SUN AND AT LEASE HIT THE MOON.
For once I agree with you about "all" of us being pussies...yep.
I think that black men are too god damned weak to stand by what the fuck they build FIRST and if a woman doesn't want to get the program...let her fuckin' walk!
As far as the community goes...I don't know if what Mhendeb pointed out is true, but it is a part of the reason black men don't build in the community...the idea of white men coming to kill us.
I don't think most dudes even think that deep. Hell, most guys get stuck on what a woman is bringing to the table.
The minute you really take a leap forward to actually put $5000 to $20k on the table for a project (if the guy has it) you will see the same "cheap" mentality come out of nowhere.
When you all hear me talk about the buying of drinks (you know, the "tricking" part...lol) for a woman.
The one thing I have noticed over the years...and I am not talking about all black men, but a damned good portion of us want to come up with other ways around simply getting the money and putting it on the table.
Maybe buying that drink is "tricking" ...I don't know
..but I do know the same issues and attitudes seem to come up when it comes to building.
I was there too...
Mofos had the opportunities...but didn't want to work hard to make that type of money.
Mofos who didn't want to spend any money.
Cats who were like...
"my girl makes good money man...I don't have to be here"
"Kap...you are doing all of these hours plus school. You have no life."
"Fuck working like our parents worked"
"My girl bought me this or co-signed for that"
"she takes care of that shit"
...and the sad part about it, there are more than enough black women who know what the fuck I am talking about...because they were in relationships with some of you all(not you all here)
They know a lot of us(not all) don't have a killer instinct about money!!
...and for the ones who shot down men like 5thci when it came to that type of drive...FUCK YOU!
We stand right here and watch other men come into our communities and make money and take it out of our communities...smh.
and then we wonder why we aren't respected? ...like the Mexicans? give me a fuckin' break!!!
...but not only that, the "respect" we get from other races of women(considering we ain't holding it down like their men are nor are most of us trying) is that really "respect" we are getting from them?
